대인 관계에서 많이 쓰면 좋은 말들, The short course in human relationship

대인 관계에서 많이 쓰면 좋은 말들, The short course in human relationship

• 제가 잘못했습니다. 잘못한 저를 용서해주세요 (I was wrong, please forgive me). 
• 당신은 참 잘 하셨습니다. (You did a good job). 
• 당신의 의견을 듣고 싶습니다. (What is your opinion). 
• 제가 도와드릴까요. (Can I help you). 
• 감사합니다. (Thank you). 
• “당신 또는 나” (You or I). 

원 저자-모름 

• 우리가 사는 동안 이런 말을 많이 할수록 보다 더 건강하고, 더 행복하게 살 수 있고, 대인 관계가 더 원활 하게 잘 될 수 있다.
• 잘못했으면 잘못했다고 용서를 구하고 용서를 받는 것이 얼마나 중요한가. 
• 남이 잘한 것에 대해서 잘 했다고 격려와 칭찬을 해 주는 것은 또한 얼마나 좋은가. 
• 나의 주장만 내세우고 내가 이 세상에서 가장 잘났다고 하는 것보다 남의 의견을 들어보고 배우고 더 잘하는 삶의 태도를 갖는 것이 또한 얼마나 좋은가. 
• 나만 잘 살고 편안하고 행복하면 된다고 생각하는 사람들보다 남을 위해서 희생하는 사람이 된다면 얼마나 좋은가. 
• 조그마한 일과 범사에 감사할 줄 아는 사람이 되는 것은 물론이고 남들이 나에게 해 준 아주 하찮고 작은 일에 대해서 항상 감사할 줄 아는 사람이 되는 것은 얼마나 좋은가. 
• 부모형제의 은혜를 잊지말고 감사한 마음을 가지고 살면 얼마나 좋은가.
• 감사한 마을을 갖는 것도 좋지만 말로 글로 꼭 화답하도록 자녀를 키우면 얼마나 좋은가.
• 대인관계에서 “나”라는 말은  가능한 한 내세우지 않고 “당신”을 존중하는 대인관계를 갖고 살면 또한 얼마나 좋은가. 
• 평상시 아이들이나 성인들이 이런 말을 더 많이 하고 그 말을 한대로 실행하면서 사는 것이 얼마나 좋은가. 

독자 여러분!

자녀들도 이런 말들을 평상시 많이 하면서 살도록 가르쳐 주시면 어떨까요? 

평소에도 인사하고  특별한 때도 인사를 잘 하면 성공 길이 훤해 집니다.

Good words to use a lot in interpersonal relationships, The short course in human relationship

• I was wrong. Please forgive me (I was wrong, please forgive me).

• You did a great job. (You did a good job).

• I want to know your opinion. (What is your opinion).

• May I help you. (Can I help you).

• thank you. (Thank you).

• “You or I” (You or I). original author – unknown

• The more we say these things throughout our lives, the healthier we are, the happier we will be, and the better our relationships will be.

• If you have done something wrong, how important it is to ask for forgiveness and be forgiven for doing something wrong.

• How good is it to encourage and praise others for doing well.

• How good it is to have an attitude of life that listens to, learns, and does better than I am the best in the world by stating my own opinion.

• How good it would be to become a person who sacrifices for others rather than those who think that only I can live well and be comfortable and happy.

• How wonderful it is not only to be grateful for the little things and everything, but to always be grateful for the little things that others have done for you.

• How wonderful it is to live with a grateful heart without forgetting the grace of parents and brothers.

• It’s nice to have a village to be grateful for, but how great it is to raise your children so that they must respond verbally and in writing.

• How nice it would be to live in interpersonal relationships that respect “you” without using the word “I” as much as possible in interpersonal relationships.

• How good it is for children and adults to say these things more often and live by doing what they say.

Readers! How about teaching your children to live by saying these words a lot on a daily basis? If you say hello on a regular basis and say hello on special occasions, the path to success will be clear.

출처 및 참조 문헌 Sources and references

• NelsonTextbook of Pediatrics 22ND Ed
• The Harriet Lane Handbook 22ND Ed
• Growth and development of the children
• Red Book 32^nd Ed 2021-2024
• Neonatal Resuscitation, American Academy of Pediatrics

• BIBLE
• How to really love your child
• How to love really your teenager

• How to really love your child Ross Campbell
• Good Behavior Stephen W. Garber, Ph.D. and other
• 10대 아들 딸 이렇게 사랑해 키워라 이상원 역
• Oral Health The Pediatric Clinics of North America, Stuart D.Josell
• Pediatric Oral Health Stuart Jose
• Ann L. Griffen, DDS, MS
• Atlas Pediatric Physical Diagnosis Frank A Oski

• Emergency Pediatrics A Guide to Ambulatory Care, Roger M. Barkin, Peter Rosen
• Gray’s Anatomy

• 제19권 소아청소년 안과 질환 참조문헌 및 출처
• Habilitation of The handicapped Child, The Pediatric Clinics of North America, Robert H Haslam, MD.,
• Pediatric Ophthalmology, The Pediatric Clinics of North America, Leonard B. Nelson, M.D.
• Pediatric Ophthalmology, The Pediatric Clinics of North America, Lois J. Martyn, M.D.
• Pediatric Ophthalmology, Edited by Robison D. Harley, M.D.
• The Pediatric Clinics of North America, David Tunkel, MD., Kenneth MD Grundfast, MD

• 제22권 아들 딸 이렇게 키우세요 참조문헌 및 출처
• Ambulatory Pediatrics, Green and Haggerty, Saunders
• Introduction to Clinical Pediatrics, Smith and Marshall, W.B. Saunders Co
• School Health: A Guide For Health Professionals, American Academy of Pediatrics
• Goodman and Gilman’s The pharmacological  Basis of Therapeutics
• Good Behavior Stephen W. Garber, Ph.D. and other
• Kids Who follow, Kids who don’t
• Loving Each Other Leo F Buscaglia, Ph, D.
• 잠정한 자녀 사랑 나비게이터

Copyright ⓒ 2014 John Sangwon Lee, MD., FAAP

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