태아, 신생아, 또는 소아 자녀의 사망과 부모, Death of a fetus, a newborn infant or a child and parents

Death of a fetus, a newborn infant or a child and parents

• Whether it is a newborn baby, a young child, a pre-pubertal school-age child, or an adolescent child, the pain, sorrow, anxiety, and despair of parents cannot be fully expressed when their child dies for any reason.

• When a fetus is aborted for any reason, when an artificial abortion is performed when an adolescent child dies, or when a young adult child dies, no one can fully understand the pain of the parents.

• Not only that, but the feelings of hopelessness and sorrow that come to grandparents and siblings are indescribable.

• Sudden death so that they can no longer see their loved ones, no more kisses, no more hugs, no more physical contact and love of any kind, leaving some parents in shock and even hospitalization.

• The death of a child can cause mental and emotional problems for parents, sometimes physical problems, as well as financial problems.

• Sometimes it destroys household functions.

• In severe cases, sometimes parents are treated with tranquilizers.

• Even with the death of a child, some parents can no longer lead a normal life.

• When a fetus that grows and plays every day in a pregnant woman’s womb becomes a natural miscarriage for no apparent reason or an artificial miscarriage for some reason, mothers and fathers, as well as her family and friends, are very heartbroken.

• It is also said that the burden is greater and incalculable than when a child is born and then dies after only a few days, or when a parent dies after living for more than 80 years.

• The resulting mental problems continue for the rest of their lives and negatively affect their lives.

• It is said that the degree of psychological problems caused by the loss of a child due to the death of a child occurs more with the mother than with the father.

• Mental problems are more common after a child’s death, especially in the first year, and it is common for the problems to continue for at least five years. Sometimes it lasts a lifetime. • In addition, especially when a young child dies, it is common for parents to be gripped with anxiety, depression, sadness, anger, surprise, guilt, stress, and despair.

• When a young child dies or someone in the family dies, do not keep in your heart the anxiety, depression, sadness, anger, astonishment, guilt, stress, despair, or unhappiness that a couple, parent-child, or family members experience. must not hide

• Have a serious conversation with a doctor, nurse, clinical psychologist, psychiatrist, or a pastor who is licensed for counseling to seek help and find mental stability.

• When nearly 200 young adolescent high school students disappeared or died due to the sinking of the Sewol ferry, their parents’ grief, surprise, anger, mourning, disappointment, disappointment, the breadth and height of their emotions went through the sky, and the people of all parts of the country in the north, south and east and west of the country mourned. The country’s leaders were grieved, and the school teachers and social leaders were in a state of shock. The author also shed tears and felt depressed, especially when reading the situation article. We pray for the rest of the dead and offer our condolences to everyone in the world.

1. Fetal death or neonatal death

• I have already mentioned the death of fetuses and newborns above, but then I will add more.

• When an infant, infant, or child dies, whether the fetus in the womb or the newborn baby dies, regardless of the cause of the death, parents are extremely depressed and desolated.

No one can comprehend and measure how great the degree of that mental pain is.

• When a single spot-sized embryo or fetus dies in the mother’s womb within one day for no apparent reason and causes spontaneous abortion, the fear, anger, guilt, and sadness that arise in both couples can overwhelm.

• When a fetus dies in the womb or when a newborn baby dies after being born for any reason, parents can fall into a deep psychological shock, and sometimes it is true that the death of a loved one who has never seen, never hugged, or even looked at is true. don’t try to believe

Photo 293. When a growing fetus is aborted, her parents are very sad and heartbroken, just like when a growing child dies. Reproduced with permission from pregnancy in Anatomical Illustration, Carnation Healthcare Services.

Picture 294. 7 months pregnant fetal ultrasound picture

• Some parents think that when their growing child dies, the death is not real, but a dream come true. They also believe that their dead children are still with them.

• Yet, anger, sadness, and unhappiness often come to the surface.

• So I go through weeks, months, and sometimes years in tears.

• Loss of appetite, eating poorly, sleeping poorly, and falling into a depressed state.

• When a fetus or newborn dies, these feelings of sadness, anger and guilt can be particularly strong in mothers, under the influence of hormones from pregnancy and delivery.

• When a fetus dies or when a newborn baby dies, she feels guilty that she died because she didn’t do her parent’s right, and wants to see and hug a dead fetus or newborn.

• Sometimes the responsibility is shifted to someone else because the baby died because of a doctor, hospital or other person’s mistake.

• Some parents have argued that the grief experienced by a parent when a fetus, newborn, or young child dies is just as sad as the death of an adult at Harvard University.

출처 및 참조 문헌 Sources and references

• NelsonTextbook of Pediatrics 22ND Ed
• The Harriet Lane Handbook 22ND Ed
• Growth and development of the children
• Red Book 32^nd Ed 2021-2024
• Neonatal Resuscitation, American Academy of Pediatrics

• BIBLE
• How to really love your child
• How to love really your teenager

• How to really love your child Ross Campbell
• Good Behavior Stephen W. Garber, Ph.D. and other
• 10대 아들 딸 이렇게 사랑해 키워라 이상원 역
• Oral Health The Pediatric Clinics of North America, Stuart D.Josell
• Pediatric Oral Health Stuart Jose
• Ann L. Griffen, DDS, MS
• Atlas Pediatric Physical Diagnosis Frank A Oski

• Emergency Pediatrics A Guide to Ambulatory Care, Roger M. Barkin, Peter Rosen
• Gray’s Anatomy

• 제19권 소아청소년 안과 질환 참조문헌 및 출처
• Habilitation of The handicapped Child, The Pediatric Clinics of North America, Robert H Haslam, MD.,
• Pediatric Ophthalmology, The Pediatric Clinics of North America, Leonard B. Nelson, M.D.
• Pediatric Ophthalmology, The Pediatric Clinics of North America, Lois J. Martyn, M.D.
• Pediatric Ophthalmology, Edited by Robison D. Harley, M.D.
• The Pediatric Clinics of North America, David Tunkel, MD., Kenneth MD Grundfast, MD

• 제22권 아들 딸 이렇게 키우세요 참조문헌 및 출처
• Ambulatory Pediatrics, Green and Haggerty, Saunders
• Introduction to Clinical Pediatrics, Smith and Marshall, W.B. Saunders Co
• School Health: A Guide For Health Professionals, American Academy of Pediatrics
• Goodman and Gilman’s The pharmacological  Basis of Therapeutics
• Good Behavior Stephen W. Garber, Ph.D. and other
• Kids Who follow, Kids who don’t
• Loving Each Other Leo F Buscaglia, Ph, D.
• 진정한 자녀 사랑 나비게이터